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Friday, October 19, 2007

Are Women Just a Piece of Meat?

Over a couple of drinks at 3 Degrees, two wise men enlightened me on the topic of sex and human behaviours. What the hell would these two know? WMDM believed very strongly that men, ALL men have no emotions. What he was implying was that a man can have a physical relationship with a woman but yet have no emotions attached. I'm sure alot of women can do that too. Why the hell would people have f**k friends, right? But what infuriated me was WMDM implied that all men think this way. Sex is just that, sex. Sure if you're single and the other person's single, no problems there. But if you're married or attached, would it be acceptable to have sex with somebody else and tell yourself it was just an act and there were no emotions involved? Well, apparently these two wise men think there's nothing wrong with that. Somehow I feel that married men who stray, always tend to find ways to validate their behaviour. They come up with excuses and reasons like "I take care of my wife and kid financially, what more do you want?". Is this a reason to stray? Single men do it because they can. It's a wonder then that Ah Sook is WMDM's idol.

I was also told that marriage is like a business transaction. According to Fegg, it's just a merging of finances. So what happened to love? And living happily ever after? Does it really not exist? Cant be true. I refuse to believe this. WMDM even believes that relationships are all about investments. It's about making the right choice and choosing your best option. A man should lay down all the women he knows and make a choice based on which woman would be a sound investment. Is this really how all men think? Granted in this century, many women are independant career women, would any of these intelligent beings allow a man to treat them like a piece of meat? I dont think so. The Chinaman mentality is so yesterday but yet there are still men like this around. Princess Model and I had this discussion once and we've worked out that we know atleast 4 men like this, which is just perfect for a game of mahjong! The four of them can swap emotionless stories and validations for their mere existence.

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