The Dating Roller Coaster

I wonder if all single women think of the same thing after riding the dating roller coaster. When they meet a guy that has slight potential, do they always wonder if this will be the last man they ever kiss and the last man they ever f**k? This fear is a legitimate one, but I'm afraid this fear only occurs to those who havent met their perfect man. If you've met the man you can foresee yourself with the rest of your life, it would not even cross your mind that there is an issue with him being The Last Man. You would actually want him to be The Last Man and The Only Man. Some of my girlfriends have this dilemma. Girls, when you find him, nothing will worry you. And if this dilemma is worrying you, then maybe he's not the one for you. Or maybe you're just having too much fun on that roller coaster and you dont want to get off. You know sooner or later you're going to get dizzy and sick of it and you will have to get off eventually. But that's not to say you shouldnt keep enjoying it for now.

A friend had a bad experience with ONF once. She's not one to be into flings or f**k buddies, but she plucked up the courage to do ONF thanks to some minor encouragement. It was an adventure with a not so pleasant outcome but nevertheless it was an experience. Ever since that incident, I cant help but laugh to myself when I see a car driving by with the car registration ONF! Another wise friend also shared with me the three step principle to flings.
1. Always expect the worse the first time due to performance anxiety and a possible drunkenness
2. Go back a second time just to make sure it isnt as bad as you thought it was
3. Let this be the final time (unless it was mind blowing the first & second time) and end it with a mind blowing head job, so you leave him with a lasting impression and knowing he’ll never get it from you again.

So, why doesn’t ONF or TQ get a second chance? Was it really that bad? I know the answer to this already so if you two are reading, no need to remind me again.

Having said all this, if you're enjoying the ride, then keep riding, literally! Some of us dont have the luxury anymore and have to live through the excitement of others. Believe me, it can be real exciting!